Tag Archives: Sexual Pleasure

Love is a Decision–And Then There’s “The Feels”

For many years, I have been living that motto.  Love is NOT a feeling, it is a decision.  A choice.  Something you wake up every day electing to do… or not to do (and paradoxically, there are many memes that … Continue reading

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Not Attracted to Your Husband?

I did some research on this topic, because I will be honest with you, it happens to the best of us. “I love my husband but I don’t feel attracted to him…” this apparently is a plight shared by many … Continue reading

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Sex, Marriage, and the 10-90

I have a tough time rolling with the punches, the ups and downs of life.  When there are downs, my world seems dark and hopeless, and I temporarily forget to think about all of the positives and good things. My … Continue reading

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Life’s Ebb and Flow, God’s Timing?

I’m almost 59. And that’s one year from 60. He’s nearly 64. In many ways I don’t feel that old. Yes, my knees ache after intense hiking and climbing (today it’s 29 flights and over 4 miles). I have an … Continue reading

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Sex After Fifty

(Disclaimer: This post pulls no punches.  Intimacy will be discussed.  Correct physical terminology will be used.  This is brutally honest, so prepare yourself.  Avoid reading if blunt and frank talk about sexuality offends you; however if you have been feeling … Continue reading

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Passion

  Back on a very hot day in July, SJ and I got to attend a rally on the National Mall called “Together 2016.”  It was described as a “once in a generation millennial-focused prayer and worship gathering.” They were … Continue reading

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Communication

When I began this blog, I was coming off of 3 years of having a pretty troubled  marriage turning better.  I had learned a lot of lessons.  I thought I’d be able to write about these lessons sagely, as though … Continue reading

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In a Funk

Yeesh. 500 words or less is REALLY hard for me.  A discipline I must really put my mind to. Life continues to go careening forward full tilt as we proceed with our move.  House on the market tomorrow.  All the … Continue reading

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Yielding Your Body– Or, Just Say Yes!

  I will own it right up front. I like sex.  I want sex with my husband, often. And, I have told my husband I will never deny him. It didn’t used to be this way.  Like so many other … Continue reading

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Among Two Consenting Adults

  Warning:.  People who have experienced physical abuses, sexual violence, or rape in their past may not be able to relate to the forms of sexual expression described here.  If you in any way feel uncomfortable with the idea of … Continue reading

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