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It’s Hard Work, This Marriage Thing

My marriage has been a work in progress from day one.   It seemed doomed to fail. After our first year, and then for 20 long years after, our marriage just seemed to get worse. Many would have cut their … Continue reading

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From Bad Comes Good

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the … Continue reading

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Seduce Her

  We want it, guys. Yes, your wife of two, three, four, and even more decades still wants you to seduce her. Romance her.  In a sense, to claim her as yours (and please, for a moment, remove the Caveman image … Continue reading

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The Little Things

    Five years into our marriage I would have told you that it might have been a sad mistake, but there were three little beings involved and we loved them very much.  After ten years I would have had … Continue reading

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Passion

  Back on a very hot day in July, SJ and I got to attend a rally on the National Mall called “Together 2016.”  It was described as a “once in a generation millennial-focused prayer and worship gathering.” They were … Continue reading

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Don’t Worry About Tomorrow

There has been precious little sharing of “wisdom” on this blog of late.  In some seasons there seems to be a real deficit of wise thoughts.  And this, I realize, is just life. We’ve had a roller coaster ride over … Continue reading

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The Strong-Willed Woman

Submission: Yielding my will to another.  I’m to be submissive to God AND my husband. The struggle of wifely submission for a Strong-Willed woman is very real. My journey towards an authentically Biblical marriage started nearly 4 years ago, just as … Continue reading

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Yielding Your Body– Or, Just Say Yes!

  I will own it right up front. I like sex.  I want sex with my husband, often. And, I have told my husband I will never deny him. It didn’t used to be this way.  Like so many other … Continue reading

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Bringing Honor to Your Husband

Your marriage might be broken right now.  You are unhappy, and sometimes you ask yourself why you married him, and can it ever be better?  Maybe you’re just resigned to staying unhappy, or you are packing your bags to be … Continue reading

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