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Love is a Decision–And Then There’s “The Feels”

For many years, I have been living that motto.  Love is NOT a feeling, it is a decision.  A choice.  Something you wake up every day electing to do… or not to do (and paradoxically, there are many memes that … Continue reading

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Why I Don’t Comment

Over the past year and a half of writing on this blog, I’ve done precious little commenting or in-depth reading or following of other blogs.  I sometimes feel quite guilty about this, because there’s a lot of good stuff out … Continue reading

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Why Is Communication in Marriage so Hard?

We’ve made it through another few days.  I suppose that’s something.  I need to be grateful for that. He has been diligently reading away, marriage books.  Love and Respect (The Love She Most Desires); The Respect He Most Needs); The … Continue reading

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Valentine’s Challenge

There are all sorts of Valentine’s Day challenges and ideas for a romantic day. One day.  Twenty four hours, and honestly, it may amount to a grand total of 2-3 hours with your special other.  Too many calories, too many … Continue reading

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Men and Communication

Words. Women are good at them.  We use lots of them. Men might prefer to accomplish most things with a minimum of words.  You won’t catch a man yacking on the phone to his buddy for an hour.  Economy of … Continue reading

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It’s Hard Work, This Marriage Thing

My marriage has been a work in progress from day one.   It seemed doomed to fail. After our first year, and then for 20 long years after, our marriage just seemed to get worse. Many would have cut their … Continue reading

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Seduce Him

  When I wrote “Seduce Her” I promised to take a flip to the other side of the coin. What seduces him? Go onto the internet, or pick up a women’s or men’s magazine, and learn all the myriad ways … Continue reading

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From Bad Comes Good

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the … Continue reading

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Yielding Your Body– Or, Just Say Yes!

  I will own it right up front. I like sex.  I want sex with my husband, often. And, I have told my husband I will never deny him. It didn’t used to be this way.  Like so many other … Continue reading

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Bringing Honor to Your Husband

Your marriage might be broken right now.  You are unhappy, and sometimes you ask yourself why you married him, and can it ever be better?  Maybe you’re just resigned to staying unhappy, or you are packing your bags to be … Continue reading

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