Tag Archives: Head of Household

The Little Things

    Five years into our marriage I would have told you that it might have been a sad mistake, but there were three little beings involved and we loved them very much.  After ten years I would have had … Continue reading

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The Submission-Leadership Conundrum

Chicken and the Egg. Or, give and take. In every relationship there is a give and take. Sometimes you give more and sometimes you take more, and it’s never good to keep score. It just is what it is. When … Continue reading

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In the Crazy Moments

Life has been insane.  It doesn’t seem possible, but I’ve actually been too busy to write.  That hardly ever happens.  And, lack of writing time sort of unbalances me. We are moving.  It’s a good move, one I’ve looked forward … Continue reading

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The Tolls Parenting Takes on a Marriage

    We are getting further and further removed from the crazy days of intense, hands-on parenting.  Before the memories fade, I need to spend some more time on this topic, as I know that some of you are right … Continue reading

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Bringing Honor to Your Husband

Your marriage might be broken right now.  You are unhappy, and sometimes you ask yourself why you married him, and can it ever be better?  Maybe you’re just resigned to staying unhappy, or you are packing your bags to be … Continue reading

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The Gift of Passion and Sex in Marriage

If you grew up with any type of religious or faith-based household, chances are you were surrounded by negative messages about sex, overtly or subliminally.  You may have been told that sex was reserved for marriage, hence it’s “bad” outside … Continue reading

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Submission by Choice

  It’s taken me over 5 decades of life, 3+ of these as a technical adult woman, to realize that submission isn’t a dirty word. Submission is a reality in our human existence.  We are required to submit to bosses, … Continue reading

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