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As Good as It Gets

To those who have wondered why I’ve not written more, this is basically why:  I started this blog in the hopes that I could provide encouragement for dying marriages, that renewal, passion, and change was possible… but I have to … Continue reading

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My Whole 30 Journey (week 2)

WEEK 2 October 8:  It’s a baking day. In South Africa this eating style is called “Banting,” this paleo-esque diet. The Real Meal Revolution book was introduced to me by a SA friend. My two favorite recipes from the book appear … Continue reading

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My Purpose?

Finding one’s purpose seems like a “no-brainer,” but it can be elusive.  Sometimes the tyranny of the here and now “define” your purpose:  “I’ve got to do well in my career; I’ve got to take care of my kids and … Continue reading

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A Dilemma

Here’s my dilemma.  I want to anonymously blog again. In 2012 I started an anonymous blog. It was pretty exciting, and a place where I just could be myself, and admit things that I really hadn’t been able to admit … Continue reading

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Seduce Her

  We want it, guys. Yes, your wife of two, three, four, and even more decades still wants you to seduce her. Romance her.  In a sense, to claim her as yours (and please, for a moment, remove the Caveman image … Continue reading

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How to Stay Young: Beauty is Fleeting

  Spoiler alert: I don’t have the secret to staying young.  No magical elixir; no fountain of youth; no miracle wrinkle cream. But I’m learning it’s a mindset and a decision we make, regardless of what society’s definition might be. … Continue reading

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Kindness in Marriage

Marriage requires kindness.  That’s a no-brainer. We all know it, we all get it. Putting it faithfully into practice: a whole other matter.   TIME Magazine recently had a piece called “How to Stay Married” in their June 13, 2016 issue. … Continue reading

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