Category Archives: On Submission

Lead me with Strong Hands

Did God place this man over me as my protector-leader, and I his partner-helpmeet? Is there ever going to be a dominant husband in my life, or is this just a cruel fiction? There are times in a marriage when … Continue reading

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This Thing We Do

  There is an interesting little phrase/acronym floating around out there in recent years, and it’s been claimed by a very specific community which at best operates on the fringes of what some might consider polite society. I have a … Continue reading

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Seduce Him

  When I wrote “Seduce Her” I promised to take a flip to the other side of the coin. What seduces him? Go onto the internet, or pick up a women’s or men’s magazine, and learn all the myriad ways … Continue reading

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Holding Hands

  My absence from writing in all forms is beginning to take its toll on me.  Barely a day could go by that I didn’t need to be engaged in some form of writing.  Events of the past several months … Continue reading

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The Submission-Leadership Conundrum

Chicken and the Egg. Or, give and take. In every relationship there is a give and take. Sometimes you give more and sometimes you take more, and it’s never good to keep score. It just is what it is. When … Continue reading

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In the Crazy Moments

Life has been insane.  It doesn’t seem possible, but I’ve actually been too busy to write.  That hardly ever happens.  And, lack of writing time sort of unbalances me. We are moving.  It’s a good move, one I’ve looked forward … Continue reading

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The Strong-Willed Woman

Submission: Yielding my will to another.  I’m to be submissive to God AND my husband. The struggle of wifely submission for a Strong-Willed woman is very real. My journey towards an authentically Biblical marriage started nearly 4 years ago, just as … Continue reading

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Trying Hard to Submit

  A few months after I began this blog, SJ asked for the web address so he could read it.  I had already posted Our Story, and written a good half-dozen posts. A little bit of history.  I have been … Continue reading

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Submission by Choice

  It’s taken me over 5 decades of life, 3+ of these as a technical adult woman, to realize that submission isn’t a dirty word. Submission is a reality in our human existence.  We are required to submit to bosses, … Continue reading

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